How to Stay Home with Your Kids When It is Not in the Budget

Don’t worry, you still have options.
There’s two situations you may find yourself in:
- You make enough money to pay your monthly expenses but nothing else and you have no financial cushion in case anything comes up.
- You do not make enough to cover your monthly expenses so you need to bring in an income.
Let’s tackle the first one first . . .Â
If you have enough to cover your monthly expenses, even if it is just barely, you can technically afford to stay home with your kids.
It is scary to quit your job without a cushion though so I’d recommend a few things:
First, save up as much as you can BEFORE you quit your job. You can do this by following the suggestion we listed on the first page of living on only part of your income while saving the rest.
I HIGHLY recommend having an emergency fund if you are living on one income. It covers you in case anything unexpected comes up, or worse, you find yourself dealing with unemployment.
You may actually have everything you need to create an emergency fun already. Don’t believe me? Look around your home. Do you have anything you can sell to get money to put towards your emergency fund? I once made $700 in a weekend just by cleaning out my house. You may be surprised at the amount of money you are able to make just be selling items that you are no longer using.
Second, consider working from home or working off hours to have a bit of a financial cushion.
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While working in any capacity may not fit your idea of what a stay at home mom does (I know it wasn’t in my plan) there are ways to be with your kids more if you get a bit creative with your working situation.
There are lots of jobs you can do from home (some jobs you can even do while your kids nap). We’ll talk more about working from home later, but know that it really is an option.
If you don’t want to work from home, you can look into a part time job with flexible hours or an on call job that will let you pick and choose if you’d like to work.
Now, let’s tackle the second situation . . .
You’ve put together a budget, cut back as much as you can, downsized (or are unable to) and you still can’t get by without your income.
You still have options.
Working from home is a great way to bring in an income. There are some great options out there that are flexible, pay really well, and will let you create the life you really want.
For me, I started by running a home daycare and eventually moved to blogging. Blogging has exceeded my expectation of what I ever thought I could earn, working from home or outside of the home and has been a huge blessing to my family. Now my husband works with me part time and works on his own business on the side so we are both home with the kids.
A few options for work at home jobs include:
- Working as a VA
- Blogging
- Running a home daycare
- Customer service jobs
- Consulting
- Tutoring
- Selling on Etsy
- Working as an Amazon seller
- Creating your own product to sell
- Working as a programer
- Design work
- Working as an accountant
Start by looking at the field you were working in. Chances are there is something you can do from home.
I once heard of a landscaper who wanted to work from home. Seems a bit far fetched, doesn’t it? He started selling landscape designs online and quickly replaced his income.
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love this! My husband and I are not expecting, but have been praying for the Lord to guide us in this area. I would love to stay home when that time comes, and I know my husband would love to give me that option. So enjoyed your insight! 🙂
You are so smart to think ahead. If you started working on a home-based job, even if it was just something on the side, right now you’d probably have a pretty decent income going by the time you have kids. Don’t discount direct sales as a side-gig either. Those are great to do when you only have a bit of extra time at the end of the day. I just started one in January as a side gig and was shocked at how much money I’ve made in such a short period of time.
Was your husband 100% on board with your decision to quit your job without any clients? I’m currently itching to make the leap but my fiancĂ© is hearing any of it haha
He was, but he didn’t want me to have to work away from home when I didn’t want to either. I did a lot of research before hand and I was pretty confident that I could make it work. If I couldn’t, I would have been able to find a job closer to home. I loved my old job but it wasn’t close to home and the extra time away from my son during the commute was making me crazy. It was also cutting into what I was actually bringing home.